Wednesday, April 22, 2009

"Don't try to saw sawdust"



"Don't try to saw sawdust." is a short quotation and is composed of only 5 words, yet it is someting which you should not disregard..Why?Because many of us today are not doing that. Have you ever sawed wood?Well if you do, there's nothing different to that. Have you ever sawed sawdust? If you do then there must be something wrong with you. If you have not seen it yet, then try cutting a wood using a saw(as in a cutting tool with teeth). As you saw the wood you can see the debris or small bits falling to the ground. Those are sawdusts. Now, try to saw the sawdust..Isn't a form of foolishness to saw the things that was already sawed?

In connection with our life, the
sawdust is like our past. Many people tend to get back on their past. They used to think back of their sad moments, regretting and worrying those moments that are over and done with. When you are doing this, you are merely trying to saw sawdust.And if you are doing it in some portions of your life, I tell you,you will never find happiness but instead you will live in a life full of worries and regrets!Don't be a prisoner of your past!

This quote is actually similar to the saying, "Don't cry over spilt milk."..Yes, this saying is a commonplace, a platitude..But are we really applying it today?Let me share to you the simple experience of a man named Allen Saunders during his interview with Dale Carnegie.



"Crying over a spilt milk"-author:Dale Carnegie
Mr. Saunders told me that the teacher of his hygiene class, Mr. Brandwine, taught him one of the most valuable lessons he had ever learned. "I was only in my teens," said Allen Saunders as he told me the story, "but I was a worrier even then. I used to stew and fret about the mistakes I had made. If I turned in an examination paper, I used to lie awake and chew my fingernails for fear I hadn't passed. I was always living over the things I had done, and wishing I'd done them differently; thinking over the things I had said, and wishing I'd said them better.

"Then one morning, our class filed into the science laboratory, and there was the
teacher, Mr. Brandwine, with a bottle of milk prominently displayed on the edge of the desk. We all sat down, staring at the milk, and wondering what it had to do with the hygiene course he was teaching. Then, all of a sudden, Mr. Brandwine stood up, swept the bottle of milk with a crash into the sink-and shouted: 'Don't cry over spilt milk!'

"He then made us all come to the sink and look at the wreckage. 'Take a good look,' he
told us, 'because I want you to remember this lesson the rest of your lives. That milk is gone you can see it's down the drain; and all the fussing and hair-pulling in the world won't bring back a drop of it. With a little thought and prevention, that milk might have been saved. But it's too late now-all we can do is write it off, forget it, and go on to the next thing.'

"That one little demonstration," Allen Saunders told me, "stuck with me long after I'd
forgotten my solid geometry and Latin. In fact, it taught me more about practical living than anything else in my four years of high school. It taught me to keep from spilling milk if I could; but to forget it completely, once it was spilled and had gone down the drain."

MY CONCLUSION?
If you want to discover the secrets of living a happier, more productive life, stop going back to your pasts. After all, what matters most is who you are now and not who you are before.Do you know how can you make your past so useful? It is only by learning lessons from them, and forgetting them...We deserve more, and somewhere along the distance there is always hope that awaits us.So let go and let God!!So stop sawing sawdust in your life now!!Stay cool and happy!!Smile!!

Thursday, April 16, 2009

WElcome to Sarangani Philippines!!!The land of beauty and tranquility

The exotic and nostalgic-evoking views of BENONI beach welcomes you with love and gladness!!!!"Benoni" means sorrow. This word was taken from the bible in the old testament. But isn't it ironic?Seeing these pictures below, you could see the inner tranquility and joy inside your hearts...Truly such a wonderful creations of God's hands...Welcome to Benoni!This fascinating place is not yet developed and cultivated,thus making this place a truly good arena for adventurous people....Enjoy looking at them!!!



Geographically, Benoni has a very interesting and unique features. The posterior part of the beach is a naturally made fish pond..This brackish pond is laden with milkfish(bangus)...We are presently developing the potentials of this pond...See the pictures below.




Wednesday, April 15, 2009

You cannot change the inevitable

"You cannot change the inevitable"..This sentence made a very remarkable point in my life. Yes,it's true, no one can really change something that is already fixed. For example, try to imagine a concrete wall in a building where there is no entrance. How can you enter through a dead end? Unless you are a superhero, it is impossible for you to break the strong wall. No matter how many kicks and punches you do against the wall in attempting to break it, you will never make it happen. You can never change the inevitable. You will only get tired. Your time and energy are being wasted. When we say inevitable, it means it is unchangeable,fixed,permanent..
Many times in our lives when we tend to fight into something that is quite impossible to change. We keep on trying to control things that are uncontrollable beyond our powers.
Let me share to you a simple story from DAle Carnegie's book. Please read it with patience...

Cooperate with inevitable
When I was a little boy, I was playing with some of my friends in the attic of an old,
abandoned log house in north-west Missouri. As I climbed down out of the attic, I rested
my feet on a window-sill for a moment-and then jumped. I had a ring on my left
forefinger; and as I jumped, the ring caught on a nailhead and tore off my finger.
I screamed. I was terrified. I was positive I was going to die. But after the hand healed, I
never worried about it for one split second. What would have been the use? ... I
accepted the inevitable.
Now I often go for a month at a time without even thinking about the fact that I have
only three fingers and a thumb on my left hand.
A few years ago, I met a man who was running a freight elevator in one of the
downtown office buildings in New York. I noticed that his left hand had been cut off at
the wrist. I asked him if the loss of that hand bothered him. He said: "Oh, no, I hardly
ever think about it. I am not married; and the only time I ever think about it is when I
try to thread a needle."

End......

Conclusion?
The acceptance of inevitable in our lives is a beginning of living a happier, relaxed life...So don't waste much time and effort to the things which you could not change..But rather accept them as part of your life, and focus on the things which you can do better.. I tell you, a man with a lot of worries in life could not perform well in his tasks..So if you want to do better, release all those worries in you by accepting instead of fighting against the inevitable...Cooperate..You cannot change the inevitable..

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Mental relaxation # 1...all about NATURE!!!

# 1. Spend two or three minutes thinking of the most beautiful and peaceful scenes you have ever beheld, as, for example, a mountain at sunset, or a deep valley filled with a hush of early morning, or a woods at noonday, or moonlight upon rippling waters. In memory relive these scenes.

The pictures shown below are some of my collections which I considered to be relaxing and uplifting ...I was the one who took the pics!!





Monday, April 13, 2009

"3 Steps to Conquer Worries" From Carnegie'S book

It is simple. Anyone can use it. It consists of three steps:

Step I. FACE YOUR PROBLEM-Analyse the situation fearlessly and honestly and figure out what was the worst that could possibly happen as a result of this failure. No one was going to jail you or shoot you so don't worry.

Step II. ACCEPT THE PROBLEM-After figuring out what was the worst that could possibly happen, reconcile to yourself to accept it, if necessary.

Step III. MAKE SOLUTIONS TO THE PROBLEM-From that time on, calmly devote your time and energy to trying to improve upon the worst which you had already accepted mentally.

Do you used to fret or fume?

Do you ever fume or fret?Here is a picture of yourself if you do. According to Norman Vincent Peale, the word "fume" means to boil up, to blow off, to emit vapor, to be agitated, to be distraught, to seethe. The word "fret" is equally descriptive .It is reminiscent of a sick child in a night, a petulant half-cry, half -whine. It has an annoying, penetrating quality. To fret is a childish term, but it describes the many reactions of adults.
In short, are you that kind of person who spends most of his day worrying and having that moody attitude?Irritable?..Well well well, there must be something in you that you need to check..But don't worry!Stop worrying now..Why?because from now on you will be journeying with me. Through my blog, you will going to feel that you are not alone, and there is really nothing to worry about in life!!!Smile!I'm going to post some inspiring words and stories for you to read and explore!!!So,,,Welcome to my WORLD!!!